Category Archives: Healing/therapy

The Truth about So Many Things

First of all, I am interested in healing.  Why else would I rant on and on about psychotherapy and its ineffectiveness as a model?  I mean, outside of the fact that I’m a writer, and I object to famous psychotherapists … Continue reading

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Practice, Practice, In Search of a Practice….or, Changing Whose Life?

Yesterday I put myself on retreat for the day.  Why?  Well, I really wanted to go to the Cambridge Insight Meditation Center and meditate for 3 hours, but I knew I had to do the mindbody work, so I figured … Continue reading

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The Sad News Is…Grief.

Okay, so, the back pain started to return. Now, I’ve been having major resistance to reading Sarno’s book, then writing about rage, and writing about rage and writing about rage.  I mean, it’s not exactly a happiness-inducing activity.  Sarno also … Continue reading

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Rent-a-Friend

Yesterday one of the company members who reads this blog was over and we had a very satisfying therapy-bashing session, in between watching youtube and talking art.  We got very in sync talking about therapy as rent-a-friend.  It made me … Continue reading

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The Truth about Couples Therapy….Finally

So, the Poodle, or Couples Therapist #3, this round. First, to state the obvious, you don’t go to couples therapy if your marriage is in good working order.  You go because you have hope, love and a need for a … Continue reading

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100 Years of Solitude or Couples Therapist #3

In Gabriel Garcia Marquez’s book, people lose their memories.  They label hammers with the word “hammer.”  My partner is a little like this.  I just came upon this couples contract we made HANGING ON OUR REFRIGERATOR!  It’s like last night, … Continue reading

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The Mind–How Powerful Are We Really? Or, Can Intimacy Be Understood?

There are these small unexplained events.  Driving with my friend Pete in New York’s Upper West Side, looking for a parking space, about to give up, suddenly turning to him and saying, “I think if I make a left, then … Continue reading

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The Dreaded Couples Therapy Session

…is today. BUT, we have a plan. My partner is in charge. I am going to sit in my chair by the door and use meditation techniques to behave myself and not crack inappropriate jokes. If the couples therapist blows … Continue reading

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Everything You Wanted to Know about Couples Therapy But Were Afraid to Ask

First, I want to cop to the fact that today is the first day of journaling on the mind/body syndrome plan.  I am supposed to write about my unconscious rage for 45 minutes, 15 minutes this morning, and 30 minutes … Continue reading

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In Love AGAIN

So, I’ve been in love with Jesse, my meditation teacher from Barre, MA, Jack Kornfield (who I have never met), am always in love with Galway Kinnell (have heard him read his poems), fell in love with Father Paul Bresnahan … Continue reading

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