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Category Archives: Spirituality
Rent-a-Friend
Yesterday one of the company members who reads this blog was over and we had a very satisfying therapy-bashing session, in between watching youtube and talking art. We got very in sync talking about therapy as rent-a-friend. It made me … Continue reading
Posted in acting, couples therapy, Healing/therapy, intimacy, just sounding off in general, love, nature, relationships, Spirituality
Tagged Buddhism, changing whose life?, couples therapy, intimacy, loss, therapy
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The Truth about Couples Therapy….Finally
So, the Poodle, or Couples Therapist #3, this round. First, to state the obvious, you don’t go to couples therapy if your marriage is in good working order. You go because you have hope, love and a need for a … Continue reading
Posted in Buddhism, couples therapy, Healing/therapy, intimacy, love, relationships, Spirituality
Tagged couples therapy, healing
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Humility Week: The Spiritual Answer to WHY? And, RESULTS?
I went back over my posts and found that right before I started Humility Week, I wrote this thing about being a teacher and the humility involved in witnessing the growth of other people, the luck of that, and the … Continue reading
Posted in art, Buddhism, couples therapy, Spirituality, writing
Tagged back pain, Buddhism, Galway Kinnell, humility, perfectionism
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Eating My Words and Then Some….or, Sex, AGAIN
So, after saying that I had found no writing on sex from a Buddhist perspective, I continued on in After the Ecstasy, the Laundry, to find a chapter entitled, THIS VERY BODY. I have been looking for this chapter. That’s … Continue reading
Posted in Buddhism, Sexuality, Spirituality
Tagged Galway Kinnell, Jack Kornfield, Mary Oliver
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The Teacher or At What Cost Humility
I have been finishing Jack Kornfield’s book, After the Ecstasy, the Laundry. And crying. Perhaps because in all the other reading, I found such a focus on Buddhism, on meditation, on one single path, and while it’s all been interesting … Continue reading
Posted in Buddhism, Spirituality, teaching
Tagged humility, image, Jack Kornfield, Japan, success
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Spirituality and Art…or, Things that Are SO Much Better than Therapy
Yesterday I was talking to a new friend on the phone, and he said something so wise it really blew me away. I’d gone to couples therapy, session #2, and hated it, really, really hated it. I was VERY upset. … Continue reading
Posted in Buddhism, Healing/therapy, Spirituality
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Why Just About Everything Is Better than Therapy
I actually heard a guy this month pathologize the love for natural beauty. I am not kidding. He said, “You must like the ocean to wash all that shame off.” Give me a break. You can’t even go in the … Continue reading
Posted in Healing/therapy, Spirituality
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What the @*(%& is with Re-entry Realizations?
This seems to be the personal growth summer. I have just returned from Arizona. While I was there, I hiked Bear Mountain in Sedona, attended a workshop for couples (with my partner, duh!), then did a 5 day workshop on…what … Continue reading
Posted in career, Film, nature, Spirituality
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